Alright, so first off this is a request for some stupid life advice in regards to girls. If you wanna troll, go ahead and find the this tab and click the little "x" button.So, I''ll make a long story short. I''m pretty socially awkward and I''m not a good looking guy, but recently I''ve begun talking to a girl who''s actually really nice and all that stuff. :P We''ve spoken for a little while now and I think it''s evident she likes me, and I mentioned that I had feelings for her. I''ve only had one girlfriend and I stumbled my way through that. She wound up saying "I think I know what you''re saying, and it''s a yes." So, yeah. I need to do better than that this time, obviously.My question to you guys, and gals if there are any, how do I go about this? Is it better to just straight up say "would you like to go out with me?" Should I say it in a better way? Anyone got any ideas? She''s from Florida, I''m from Arizona myself (for foreigners, have a map)
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We''ve discussed long distance relationships and determined we''re both fine with them and would more than willingly go for it if the opportunity presented itself.So that''s my question to you guys. Sorry for the stupid life advice, I just really don''t have an idea. Thanks! And to get rid of the possible question, yeah she''s cute. :P
I'm just here to write a quick update.
I haven't asked her out yet, but we've gotten a lot closer since that post. I feel like that if I ask, it's like a 90% yes. I'll consider a few external factors that don't quite need to be expressed here, and if all seems well, I'll ask this coming weekend.
Thanks guys for your input on the previous thread!
Asking Someone Out - An Update.
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Originally Posted by
Raiden
well, it's not that we are happy because you succeed on this or not, bro, but we are just glad you want to share your really "personal" matter.
It's really different compared to watching movies, it's reality, you see? We won't know what'll happen tomorrow, so ... we keep trying.
still, good luck to you, bro :)
(too bad I can't quote at all @
SWGCryand)
Thanks man. We discussed it and while I didn't mention my intention, she isn't sure if she wants a relationship. She was raped by her last boyfriend, and while the distance would prevent that (like I have any intent to do that to start with?) she's just concerned she won't be "up to par" with someone else.
We'll be in a call all weekend so we'll see.
Edit: She knows I wouldn't hurt her, and also knows I'm protective of her. If she doesn't want a relationship, that's fine with me. She's a human with emotions as well. She isn't my possession, I have no control over her.
Edit 2: That sounds bad. I apologize.
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